This month the University of Toronto released two studies examining why people have sex— especially those of us in LTR’s. The results? Not particularly surprising, which makes me wonder. Do we need studies to help us make decisions in our personal lives? Or should we just be more thoughtful?
A lot of dudes have lied to me about stuff. Sometimes really stupid stuff too. I mean, since when does making “good money” mean pulling bike delivery shifts for a cheeseburger joint? Just stop. I know you’re trying to act like a baller when you’re really not. So quit the nonsense already. Thank you.
Reblogged from Thoughts of a Walian: Now, my friend (we’ve spoken four times, we’re BFFs) has written a blog post about how she thinks guys are always hitting on her. Now at first I scoffed at such a sweeping generalisation. I generally dismiss such statements out of hand, but out of politeness I continued reading and […]
I have an issue, and a confession. I have no idea when I’m being hit on. Okay, so maybe it’s not that I have no idea of when I’m being hit on. I mean, I’m a gal who’s lived in New York for the past 8 years. It’s not like I walk around this damn […]
Let me make something clear here. Being in a relationship isn’t an accomplishment. Anyone, I mean anyone, can be in a relationship. Tons of people are in long term relationships and shouldn’t be in them. Quite frankly, it’s not the hardest thing to do if you’re just looking to settle. (I know there’s friends you’re […]
The apartment struggle in New York is REAL. We’ll do whatever we can to get our ideal place, which is never actually ideal and always just-kind-of-okay and a little out of our price range. It’s no surprise that one of the best things about falling in love, in this city, is moving in together.
In bed, the phone goes off. It’s during the creeping hours of the evening. Your #1 guy or gal goes “WHO’S THAT NOW BLOWING UP YOUR PHONE?” And while you may not be busted per se, it’s obvious that something’s going on. You cheating jerk.
It’s happened recently that a number of my friends have started to date people with kids. For the never-been-pregnant, this is kind of a big fucking deal. Not that kids aren’t cool or anything, but let’s be honest, for those of us who are used to taking care of ourselves (and barely) having another being […]
In the beginning of the summer, a friend of mine received the shocking news that his parents were splitting up. His parents had never given the impression they were having any problems as a couple and as far back as he could remember his parents were in it for the long haul–– well as far […]